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Which tracks in Ariana Grande’s fourth studio album still hold up in 2020, and which one gets the title of “best song in Sweetener“?

Some may say that Ariana Grande’s magnum opus is her latest album, thank u, next, but if anything, Sweetener was the project that catapulted her into modern icon status.

This year, we are celebrating the second anniversary of Grande’s fourth album by ranking all fifteen tracks in it. Read more to find out which ones we think should be erased from memory and which one we declare the best song in Sweetener.

The Not-So-Sweet Tier

15. get well soon

Within the Grande fandom, the entire Sweetener album is polarizing. Some say that it’s her best work to date, while some swear it’s her worst. And there’s the camp who says that Pharrell Williams ruined sweetener, while there are those who vehemently defend the tracks he produced.

Whether a song has awakened love or hate in the listeners, at least you could say it has made an impact. The worst sin you could commit in a sea of memorable tracks is to be forgettable… which unfortunately, get well soon is.

14. successful

Tracks like successful are why I enjoy going back to albums years later and reevaluating their rankings. If I had ranked the entire album based off my first listen, I would say that successful is the best song in Sweetener.

It’s actually the very first non-single track I enjoyed off this project, but now it’s just okay.

There is definitely an appropriate mood to play this song, and that’s when I feel like celebrating myself and my accomplishments.

But would I listen to this song over and over? Probably not. While I dug the N64/video game-inspired production the first listens, it gets pretty old soon after.

To give credit where it’s due, I will say that the lyrics are pretty empowering and fun to sing along to!

13. pete davidson

*Insert obligatory “aged like fine milk” joke here”*

Regardless of its title, pete davidson is a cute little interlude that serves its purpose in the album to transition into the final track. It works in that respect but never really gets past first gear.

Do I feel like people are biased against it because they weren’t fans of Ari and Pete when they were together? Yes.

In hindsight though, pete davidson is an important track in the album because the internet was just eating up all the news about the doomed couple at the time. If you think about it, this track is actually a tiny time capsule that makes us remember that weird stage in Grande’s life.

12. the light is coming (feat. Nicki Minaj)

Confession time: I actually liked this song a lot when it first came out! I never got the hate against TLIC, but as time passed, it seemed like the hate just grew bigger and bigger. It was even ranked #1 in the top 10 worst songs of 2018 by pop music Youtube reactor, AjayII.

It’s just meant to be a fun experimental project with Nicki Minaj after their successful collaboration back in 2014 with Bang Bang. However, the production does get pretty old years later like most Pharrell-produced tracks in the album.

Sweetener fans, do you still hear “you wouldn’t let anybody speak and instead” ringing in your ears?

11. sweetener

The title track of this album is shockingly… immature. If it weren’t for the sexual euphemisms (lick the bowl), it could probably pass off as something Tess from Camp Rock would sing.

To this day though, I’d find myself singing along to the Bop It-inspired chorus out of the blue. I’ve also had multiple people ask me what Grande song was playing when they heard this playing in my car. So I guess the track works by giving us that I-hate-it-but-it’s-stuck-in-my-head feeling in the vein of hits like MMMBop and Baby.

I will say though, if Pharrell ruined the production of anything in the album, it’s this one.

10. borderline (feat. Missy Elliott)

This is a fun bop which does not have a ton of replay value because the production doesn’t go anywhere exciting.

I know every reviewer has said it already but Missy Elliott’s talent was thoroughly wasted in this “collaboration”. She had a pretty forgettable feature, which is unfortunate because the both of them would kill it if they showed out.

I also have some issue with the lyrical content in this one, but that’s a pretty small thing for what feels like a filler track that’s just meant to get you on your feet.

The Sweet Tier

9. raindrops (an angel cried)

I normally wouldn’t rank a short album intro this high. But God damn, Ari ate this up and really said she is going to serve everyone in 40 seconds. I’m now left wondering if this would be the best song in Sweetener if it was actually a full-length track.

That power note doe!

8. blazed (feat. Pharrell Williams)

This track is not an instant bop. I remember having ranked the entire Sweetener album back in 2018 and placing blazed at the bottom of the rankings.

But during quarantine, I took another listen and couldn’t get it out of my head! It’s a laid-back mid-tempo pop song where Ariana doesn’t feel too out of place with Pharrell’s eccentric production.

Of all the collaborations in the album, this is the only one that actually worked.

7. God is a woman

GIAW was released as the second single from Sweetener. Not being an Ari stan when it first came out, I was pleasantly surprised with this track’s R&B sound that casual listeners never really heard from her since her first second ever single, The Way.

I admit that I’ve gotten quite tired of the song from playing it over and over again. However, it doesn’t take away from how good the track is especially with its stunning and memorable music video.

6. no tears left to cry

I remember when I had first listened to this on the radio and got confused. There are a lot of things going on with the production that it’s easy to feel disoriented. If you don’t listen attentively, you’ll think that it’s a hot mess of songs thrown together.

But now, I can say it’s “complex” rather than “confusing”. It was such a strong comeback single for Grande who had just gone through the Manchester Arena bombing, as she declares that she “ain’t got no tears left to cry”.

This song holds a special place in my heart for getting me through some tough times. Even though there’s a sense of delusion behind the lyrics, it’s perfect for those moments that you just have to cry while you party.

The Sweetest Tier

5. goodnight n go

This track is just so perfectly wholesome and cute. As the title implies, it has this goodnight lullaby feel that makes you want to cuddle up with someone and talk the night away with this song playing in the background.

It heavily samples Imogen Heap’s Goodnight and Go, but it doesn’t feel that way because Ari injects her personality and musical style so well that she makes it into her own! The last chorus where she hits a high note to cap off the song is probably the best few seconds in her entire discography.

4. breathin

If I didn’t play breathin so much for the past two years, it would’ve been my personal best song in Sweetener. Nevertheless, this Max Martin-produced track is pop perfection, serving as one of Grande’s career highlights.

Like NTLTC, it is a song that makes you want to cry and party at the same time. Through the lyrics, Ari lets us into her state of mind by detailing her all-too-familiar experience with anxiety. On the other hand, the upbeat tempo encourages us to shout along with her and dance to the beat of our inner demons.

It’s a shame we never really got to see breathin take off as a single since it was released right before thank u, next. But we’re still lucky that Ari was able to give us a music video for it even though a lot was happening in her life during that time.

3. everytime

We all have that one toxic person we can’t move on from, and everytime never fails to remind us of them. I love playing this song whenever I want to remember my stupidity in keeping people who are just not good for me.

Musically, you could tell that Grande is in her most comfortable with tracks like these that combine R&B and pop influences. The production is a lot simpler here than in the other tracks, but it complements the vibe that the song is going for.

Now everyone sing along with me: “why oh why does God keep bringing me back to you?”

2. R.E.M

This track in a word: dreamy. Even Pharrell’s never-ending moaning in the background couldn’t stop my enjoyment of this track!

It’s one of those songs that makes you want to close your eyes and imagine a life with someone you really like.

Even though the production doesn’t change much, you’ll never get tired of listening to it over and over again. R.E.M is a track that is defined by Grande’s vocals. She grabs the listener by the ears and demands that you join her in a journey to romantic fantasy.

Ari’s vocal mastery is on full display here, and I know this because I’ve tried to sing it on-key to no success.

1. better off

Surprise! Only a few of us Ariheads will say that this is the best song in Sweetener.

I’ll even take it one step further by saying that it is the greatest song in Ariana’s entire discography.

I could write an entire standalone article to justify my hot take, but you guys aren’t prepared for that. The simple but beautiful melody makes it a timeless track that you could easily listen to without getting tired. It’s also one of the rare times that Ari doesn’t really “go off” vocally; you could even say she was holding back here.

With both the production and vocals being so understated, better off forces the listener to focus on the story she’s telling through her words.

And when you do that, the song just hits you in the heart. If you’ve been following Ari’s life, then you know that she’s singing about Mac Miller, someone whom she really loved, in this track. In fact, she has said she was not going to perform this song live anymore after he had passed away.

On a personal level, I place better off in such a high regard because I could empathize with her headspace in this track. Grande candidly details her experience of letting go of someone who wasn’t particularly good for her.

And that wraps up our ranking of Sweetener! If there’s anything I want you to take away from this, it’s that better off is the best song in Sweetener, periodt.

This album may not be Ariana’s strongest on a musical level, but the impact the entire era had in pop culture cannot be denied.

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Five months later, we’re still bitter about Lana del Rey’s universally-acclaimed album losing out to Billie Eilish in this year’s Grammys. But we’re doing the impossible and ranking all the tracks in Norman Fucking Rockwell, her best work yet. This alternative pop album released in 2019 has become an instant classic, especially in this post-modern apocalypse we are currently living in. NFR is written and produced by Jack Antonoff and Lana del Rey herself.

If you’re a first-time listener, I recommend listening to this album from start to finish to experience this masterpiece in the way it was intended to be. Tracklist order matters, people!

Also, out of respect for the modern female alternative icon, we are also following the weird capitalizations she used in naming the album tracks.

14. Bartender

In this song, Lana details her love affair with a… bartender? The lyrics are definitely all over the place, which does not help the repetitive production. I still stand by my initial thought that NFR could have been a no-skip album if it weren’t for this track. It doesn’t help that it follows “The greatest”, which is one of the best songs in the album. You either love or hate the chorus, where Lana gets into the ASMR trend by repeating “bar-t-t-tender”. While I personally like it, the lyric is just a cute little somethin’ somethin’, but doesn’t improve the song that much.

Imagine my disappointment when she announced that “Bartender” was going to be part of the triple music video she had released at the start of the year, which you can watch below. But to give credit where it is due, I thought the fun, fiery ACAB visuals really added to the song. The “Bartender” segment is definitely the strongest out of the three.

13. Doin’ Time

To be honest, I enjoyed listening to this Sublime cover when it first came out. Well, every song that appears from here on and out is a bop, but it just so happens that I have to rank all of them from best to worst.

“Doin’ Time” was released as a 2019 summer track, being one of Lana’s more popular singles. It has enjoyed moderate mainstream success and was even given sufficient budget for a music video. And you know it had some budget because it wasn’t shot on an iPhone. The only reason this song is so low is because I’ve played it so much before the album came out that I eventually became tired of it. Plus, with it being a cover, I didn’t feel it was as personal as the other tracks. Fun, light, and tropical is how I’d describe this.

12. Love song

Following the happier tunes in the album, “Love song” mellows it down with a romantic and shockingly optimistic serenade. This is a strong candidate for your Songs to Walk Down the Aisle To playlist: a simple piano ballad that describes what it feels like to be thankful for someone you are truly in love with. If your only exposure to Lana was her early work, you never would have guessed she had the capability to bust out something like this.

This song follows “Fuck it I love you” and “Doin’ Time” in the album, so this song closes out a trilogy of songs where happiness reigns supreme. It also marks the beginning of sappier instrumentals. And for those reasons, “Love song” screams transitional track to me. While it is definitely not a filler track, it does not feel like an important track which is why I’m placing this at a lower rank than the other ones.

11. Norman fucking Rockwell

Serving as the opener of the album, I thought this titular track did its job in setting the tone of the album from a musical standpoint. When you first listen to this, you get the idea that the rest of the album is going to be more laid-back than Lana’s previous works.

This song has a lot of killer lyrics that I’m always waiting for a moment to whip out. “God damn, manchild, you fucked me so good that I almost said I love you” and “you’re fun and you’re wild, but you don’t know the half of the shit that you put me through” are literally the first two lines of the song. Talk about hooking your audience in! Aside from how quotable the lyrics are, Lana’s singing ability is showcased in this simple track.

10. California

As a Lana fan, the most interesting thing about “California” is the subject of the song, who may or may not be her ex-boyfriend Barrie. Serving as an ode to her past relationship and her love for the state, you can’t help but feel nostalgic when you listen to this song. Lana’s ability to paint a picture of a setting, and a relationship, is clearly highlighted here.

This is ranked tenth simply because I don’t find myself listening to this song a lot. But when it does come on though, I don’t really want to skip it either.

9. Fuck it I love you

The colorful and ahrt visuals that were on display in the double music video made this track so much better. As the music video exemplified, this fast-paced funky track is something you’d want to play surfing on the beach. The lyrics are sad with a sense of delusion coming from one’s desire to be happy. There’s not much to say about this, except that it’s a mid-tier, “good enough to bop to” song.

8. hope is a dangerous thing for a woman like me to have – but i have it

Well that’s one long-ass title… but it grabs your attention, doesn’t it? Even with all the anti-feminist accusations Lana has received as of late, this track is a good indication that her heart is in the right place. This is Lana in her most poetic state. The production is at its most basic in this one, drawing us into her angelic voice and into a sense of intimacy. It adds emphasis to how important this song is in Lana’s discography, who is now able to speak to us about her experience as a woman. The fact that the words she had written for this song is front-and-center makes it extra special.

While I appreciate this song for what it is, I have never really found a perfect time to listen to this. I acknowledge that it may have to do with the fact that I’m not a woman myself, but it’s more because I liken this song to a spoken word poem of sorts. While I enjoy it, I wouldn’t want to listen to it all the time.

7. Mariners Apartment Complex

This torch song was the first track to be released in the messy rollout of NFR, dating back more than a year before the actual album dropped. I think “Mariners Apartment Complex” is one of the songs you’d have to suggest to someone who wants to know what Lana currently sounds like. The maturity in the lyrics shows how much she has grown as a person in the past years. It’s also worth acknowledging how she is finally the less passive one in her relationship, as she sings, “You’re lost at sea, then I’ll command your boat to me, and / Don’t look too far, right where you are, that’s where I am / I’m your man“.

Alright, we see you Miss Lana. And speaking of which, she addresses her critics in the second verse which I found cathartic! It’s also worth noting that the acoustic guitar and drums here are more prominent than in most of Lana’s work, making this a standout track in her entire discography.

6. How to disappear

In the Lana del Rey fandom, this track is not a favorite from NFR. And that’s primarily because before the album was released, she had sung it live in an iTunes event with just a piano accompanying her. The album version changes up the instruments significantly, the most prominent one being the addition of what sounds like bell jingles. As a result, the song sounds like something out of a Twin Peaks Christmas special. Can you already imagine Lana standing onstage in front of red curtains, singing this song?

Lyrically, Lana does it again by serving us a colorful narrative of events. As an aside, I personally love the change in instrumentals; going back to a piano version would make it a pretty basic track. With that said, I think that this song would have been received more warmly if the live version didn’t precede it. And I love me some Twin Peaks!

5. Happiness is a butterfly

I have to confess, I hated this song for the first few months NFR was out. It was only after the triple music video had dropped that I came around to loving it. I couldn’t help but cringe whenever I heard the lyrics “happiness is a butterfly“, but now, I don’t really mind it because the song features my favorite lyric from this album: “If he’s a serial killer, then what’s the worst that can happen to a girl who’s already hurt?”. There’s also an addictive talk-singing part that I just have to follow along to whenever I play it on speaker.

This one isn’t flashy, but it’s definitely a grower. If you’re having trouble getting into the song, then maybe the visuals will help you out with this one. I mean, how adorable is Lana with a butterfly on her nose?

4. The Next Best American Record

You don’t have to do anything, I can already hear you saying I’m tasteless. A lot of people think this is one of the weaker tracks in the album, but I find it the most underrated one out of all. I’m putting it at fifth because I’m a whore for lyrics. And for this song, the words give me a sense of nostalgic excitement and joy that makes me feel like I’m young and in love. It depicts what an ideal relationship looks like in my head (“We were so obsessed with writing the next best American record / that we gave all we had ’til the time we got to bed ’cause we knew we could“) which is basically a relationship of two ambitious people pushing each other to be their greatest selves.

Fun fact: this was supposed to be released back in 2017 for her album, Lust for Life. They had even shot a music video for it! However, because the track had leaked, they used the footage for another song, “White Mustang”, instead.

3. Cinnamon Girl

Production-wise, this is where NFR is hit its peak. I remember during release day, “Cinnamon Girl” was the track that everyone was raving about, and for good reason! The piano accompaniment and electronic sound fuse together in such a beautiful way that supports the emotionally-loaded lyrics pretty well. “Cinnamon Girl” climaxes with an instrumental break that showcases Jack Antonoff’s work at full display. Overall, this is a technical masterpiece.

Here, Lana del Rey is at her most Lana del Rey, channeling what is left of her inner sadgirl to talk about her reluctant desire to be with somebody knowing there’s a chance that she could get hurt. Because if her early work is anything to go by, this girl has not had it easy.

This is Lana in her most romantically fragile state… so Tumblr aesthetic people will enjoy this! But a word of caution: bring out that roll of tissue paper when you listen to this.

2. The greatest

This song is about nothing, and about everything at the same time. The lyrics speak of longingness and the desire to go back to simpler times. Out of all the tracks in the album that have a nostalgic theme, this one definitely hits the hardest. And again, the music video helped drive the point home to listeners. More than that, there’s something about the simplicity of the lyrics and Lana’s delivery that makes it a lot more poignant. This is her swan song.

When I say that NFR is an album to listen to during the apocalypse, it’s because of songs like this that take a more defeatist approach to the crap the world is going through. Almost a year since its release, “The greatest” is still relevant — and maybe even more so now that we’re in quarantine, while everything else is happening outside our homes. “Oh, the live stream’s almost on.“

1. Venice Bitch

Whenever I recommend this song to non-Lana fans and tell them it’s over nine minutes long, they look at me like I’m crazy. But this track is just that damn good. And you know why I think this is Lana del Rey’s best song ever? Because it’s just so timeless. This was one of the earliest tracks released for the album, and almost two years in, I am still not sick of it. Lyrically, “Venice Bitch” is a lovely voyage to that corner in Lana’s mind that houses hopeless romanticism intertwined with the American dream.

Musically, it’s a psychedelic pop song which shows Lana’s versatility as an artist. Despite it being uncharted waters for her, she nails it out of the park! In the middle of the song is a long guitar break, but it does not exhaust the listener, and more than that, adds depth to the theme and mood of the song.

Overall, this is a bop of a song that goes with every mood you’re in. Rain or shine, this is a song that you could sing to, drive to, cry to, smile to, escape to, relax to… again, “Venice Bitch” is freaking timeless.

The Verdict

Even if we weren’t able to talk about the album as a whole, trust me when I say that Norman Fucking Rockwell is one of the best pop albums of the 2010’s. Maybe one of the best albums this decade, period. All ears will definitely be on Lana as she prepares to release her next album, Chemtrails Over the Country Club. In the meantime, let’s relive my personal AOTY 2019 pick, NFR in all its glory:

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Aggressive fandoms going after each other and celebrities is killing the enjoyment of social media, as they grow more rabid and hostile by the day. And unfortunately, it’s also been taking people’s lives.

What is stan culture, anyway? Well, to answer that, it’s important to know what ‘stan’ truly means. The word ‘stan’ comes from a song named “Stan” released by Eminem and Dido back in 2000. The lyrics of the song is written from the point-of-view of Stan, a dangerously crazy, psychopathic stalker who happens to be obsessed with Eminem. And since we’re on the topic, feel free to watch the beautiful music video of this modern classic here:

To put it simply, being a stan of someone means being a dedicated fan of someone or something. You can be a stan of celebrities, idols, TV shows, TV characters, and maybe even political figures.

The word ‘stan’ has made way into our lexicon today, and is pretty standard Gen Z slang. However, it has been repurposed to mean something a bit lighter and less violent. It’s not uncommon to hear someone say that they stan someone and mean it unironically. But even so, it has always carried around a negative connotation, especially because stans have always had questionable behavior. Not only are they the first life of defense for the idols and celebrities they worship, but when you go against whomever they admire, they will relentlessly come at you like a pack of hyenas.

Stan culture is the culture online where dedicated fans come together to rain support, and discuss all the details about their favorites. Unfortunately, what’s supposed to be a good thing has devolved into an arena where stans go against each other to prove that their idol is better than the others. While there are positive ways to show their support like fancams and endless praises, toxic things like fan wars, online bullying, and cancelling someone are all encouraged in here. And in some cases, the people who are meanest to celebrities are their stans themselves.

So it’s no surprise that people who are not part of this culture look down at those who partake in these things. It seems crazy looking from the outside, but once you’re there, it’s not hard to be sucked into the whole mess. I mean, we all have that one thing we can’t shut up about, and only a handful of people also appreciate.

Listen, I am a self-proclaimed stan of certain celebrities, and I even have a stan account (a separate social media account for the sole purpose of fangirling over things you stan) that I handle. I am a pretty active reader of different subreddits that are meant for fandoms to come together. So this is not just another article villainizing being a stan, but it’s a precautionary measure to hopefully make you think twice of your actions.

Why do we have to cancel people and keep on making #IsOver parties?

Twitter is probably where the stan culture is at full effect, and every week, it seems like there’s always a new celebrity receiving massive hate for small things. I’m not talking about racist, homophobic, or transphobic comments that could genuinely harm people, but petty drama reserved for trashy reality TV.

Of course, who could forget the #TaylorSwiftIsOver party back in 2016 that forced her into hiding for sometime? Ever since then, it seems like there’s someone finding and replacing the hashtag with the name of a celebrity. While I personally enjoyed the drama it gave us, can we just talk about how it always achieves nothing? Since then, Swift had released two albums and went on a globally successful tour. Not once did she ever become irrelevant, and the same can be said for the other people who found themselves getting “exposed” on Twitter.

Let’s reserve those hashtags for scumbags like the cops, Brock Turner, Donald Trump, Harvey Weinstein, and countless others — people who actually put people’s lives in harm.

Have you ever noticed how much more women celebrities get “cancelled” as opposed to their male counterparts?

A lot of people preach about feminism and female empowerment, but they don’t realize the amount of hate they give towards successful women. Often, the reasons for cancelling them are often unfounded. They could just be liking a tweet that implies they do not get along with someone, and they’d get massive backlash over it. While I’m not a fan of Demi Lovato myself, it’s crazy how much flack she’s getting for daring not to be friends with Selena Gomez.

If Justin Bieber circa 2013 were a woman, his career would be over. But because he’s an attractive young boy, he got a free pass and went on to have success in music. Hell, his bad boy persona probably sold him more records. Do we even need to talk about Chris Brown who beat up Rihanna, and is still getting hits? Or how about Dr. Luke who is publicly known to have abused Kesha, but just made a Hot 100 comeback with “Say So”?

Why are women getting all the heat for the littlest things? Fellow stans, we can do better than this. I’d like you to be a little more mindful about the gender of the people you hate, and see if the reasons you have for not liking them are justified.

Why do we need to undercut the success of other celebrities?

I don’t understand why some stans can’t be happy for other people, and keep on parading their idols around like they’re the best thing in the world since sliced bread. Okay, I am calling out myself on this. Do you all remember the Grammys this year when Billie Eilish swept the four major categories? Lana del Rey and Ariana Grande stans alike were furious as their idols lost out on to Eilish for the Best Album award.

While there was a lot of uproar over this decision, a lot of people got angry at Eilish herself even when she was not part of the selection process. Moreover, she went on stage to literally say that Ariana deserved the award. So why do we have to send out hate to her?

Why can’t we accept genuine apologies?

This one really gets under my skin. It seems like stan culture can’t accept any apologies, and once you are caught guilty of doing something irresponsible, you can’t try and mend those fences no matter what you do.

I will hold out on naming any examples, because doing so would imply that I agree with the apologizer’s actions. But my point is that we shouldn’t be accepting apologies just because they did, but it’s always good to read or listen to them without judgement beforehand. It’s not good being cynical all the time either. The lack of empathy and genuine intent to listen from stan culture is pretty alarming. It’s pretty common for celebrities to say their piece, and just be made fun of even if they got their point across. We can’t preach forgiveness and mercy when we can’t practice it ourselves.

Why can’t we be kinder?

I am still heartbroken today, weeks after the death of Terrace House and rising professional wrestling star Hana Kimura. After receiving huge backlash from her stint in Terrace House, she took her own life. As a fan of both the Netflix show and professional wrestling, I was pretty devastated, especially when I remembered that she was just my age and had a bright future ahead of her.

It was crazy because only a week prior, I had watched the scene in Terrace House that seemed to launch all the haters against her. People were sending her death threats, or wishing for her to kill herself. And even after the fact, I saw tweets that celebrated her death. Could you imagine what was going through her head when she had read those things? Probably not. All of this hate from dedicated fans of the show contributed to her death, and it is honestly sickening.

While I have been through a personal event that changed my view on cyberbullying, this just helped me even more in realizing that I need to be kinder in social media, even to celebrities. Because as Hana’s death reminds us, the people on our screens are just like us: they want to be loved. Celebrities are frustrating, but most of the time, they haven’t done anything grave that warrants being burned at the stake. We can’t keep losing people to harsh words and hate.

So where do we go from here?

I think it’s high time that we reevaluate how we interact with each other in the stan landscape. This is a bigger issue that needs to be addressed by the social media giants who have the power to regulate the posts that we see in our feeds.

On the individual level though, there are a lot of things that we can do to encourage positivity within our own communities. As much as celebrities need to change, we also have to pick up our own weight, and practice empathy. Support the people you want, but not at the expense of others. Hold people accountable and be critical of their work all you want, but don’t be mean. If you really can’t stop hating someone, just keep your hateful thoughts to yourself. There are already too many Negative Nancy’s in the world, and we don’t need another one.

Instead, with all the turmoil in the world, why not use your platform to help out others? I already see countless stan accounts raising awareness on movements, educating others on issues, and encouraging them to sign petitions, donate, etc. The followers of your stan account are probably people whom you don’t know personally, so you could reach those who are not too familiar with global issues.

Hey, if the K-pop stans you hate so much are doing their part in the movement by overloading despicable hashtags like #WhiteLivesMatter with fancams, then maybe stan culture isn’t so bad after all. And in true stan fashion, I will now end this post by telling you to stream eight by IU and SUGA!

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